Friendship.

   First of all I want to apologize for not being able to write a post last week,  I'm involved with many tests and hardly I have time to write.
 
   Have you ever had a friend / partner who has distanced yourself from who you used to be? I did.
   About a year ago or so I met a guy who quickly won my confidence and became my best friend. At first everything  was fine, we spent a great time together, until suddenly everything changed, he became obsessive.
  He only allowed me to hang out with him , if I didn't answer his messages instantly he was angry with me and he used to say I didn't care about him. At that time I thought it was normal, that hecared about me, but sadly it was not.
   Our conversations were focused only on him, we never talked about anything but their problems, and when I tried to tell or ask him for advice about any concerns that haunted in my head he told me that they were irrelevant
   That made me feel pretty bad about myself because I started thinking I was worthless. I didn't feel loved, I didn't feel supported, I felt lonely.
   At that moment I didn't realize what was happening, my friends told me that since a few months ago I wasn't myself but when I asked him, he told me that my other friend didn't knew me well, which made them more distanced from me .
  It was not until I had a little absurd argument with him I realized how little he really cared and how much he used me. I decided to end this relationship.
 
   What I mean with all of this, is that if you have someone so toxic in your life, get rid of them . No one should make you feel inferior. Nobody is so worth it for you to change entirely for him or her. And keep in mind that sometimes the people we love the most are the ones that harm us.

   See you next week! ❤